More Sunriver Scenes

For posterity sake- here's some more pics to commemorate the great times we've been having this weekend-
Along the bike ride, two couples were taking pictures of their brand new 6 week old puppies. Of course, animal-super-lover Nati could NOT resist loving on them.
I'll admit, I'm not a big fan of initiating "group games" - but almost always, once I'm involved, I have a lot of fun. So was the case when we all partook in a family game of baseball
Here are our guys - we're so lucky.......
Notice, in this occassion, I'm not partaking in the game-playing.....
After playing with the puppies, our bike ride eventually led us to the stable where the girls had fun tempting the horses with grass just beyond their reach
This picture caught Brayden just after he connected with the ball - run Brayden, run!
It was a bit colder today, so this was Ellie crawling into Michele's sweatshirt
More food pics - this is a knock-off of a fantastic drink I had at Red Robin the other night- drinking these, on the patio, at sunset - what a great time.
Here's a picture of the Dutch Babies I made this morning - topping options included pie cherries, raspberry sauce (both with whip cream) or lemon juice and powdered sugar - yummy!

Scenes from Sunriver

I just can't tell you how great the day has been. In the last couple of years there have been situations and reasons why things have been a bit less than ideal. This year, everyone here seems to all be in a sort of "cloud 9" state - the kids have been playing tremendously together (and staying out of our hair), it's just been GREAT- here's some pics of day one of our get-away-
all 18 of us set off on mountain bikes, cruiser bikes, tag-a-long bikes, bike seats, or bike trailers. I discovered something amazing - a "cruiser bike" keeps my head and neck in perfect posture and has the potential to revolutionize my enthusiasm for bike-riding. In the past couple of years, bike riding has been something I've enjoyed, but knew I would pay a hefty price for (in terms of headache due to posture)- thanks to the bikes here at the house, I think that might all change....
The back-seat driver on my bike
Some of the adults of the group hanging in the kitchen
all 10 kids eating lunch prior to our bike ride
The youngest three are quite a trio- Ellie and Jackson have a "thing" for each other, and Adam is constantly bringing smiles to our faces, Michele snapped a great shot of them all happy at the hot tub
John did an excellent job grilling this huge platter of marinated tri-tip -
This is a very happy sight for me - perhaps one of my favorite meals of all time - tri-tip, baked beans, bbq chips, corn on the cob, raspberry pretzel salad, topped off with marionberry cobbler for dessert......

A Couple of Questions LXX

"Lost" is currently being paused while John is gabbing with Travis. Additionally, Dennis and kids just arrived to drop off the utility trailer for us to start loading up for the trip. So, while the "boys" tend to their chores, I'll offer up a few questions......

1. What are your Memorial Day weekend plans?

2. As the sun has come out and golden tans are being sought out, do you have any stories of the worst sunburn experience you've ever had? If you never have never had a sunburn - congratualtions and feel free to share any story you want.......

Love Is in the Air

For the past three years we have taken a group trip to Sunriver for Memorial Day weekend. This year is no exception. Part of the fun of preparation for me is realizing that the week prior to going is the last week for tv finales. So, I have had fun memories of packing clothes and food and baking cookies while watching season enders. Last night I watched "Heroes" in the bonus room (I sure hope Parker doesn't die....) and then John and I watched the finale to "Bachelor".

Yes, I know that show has a terrible track record. Sometimes, it can be just plain awful. But, I have to say, this season has been pretty good. Andy Baldwin, from my perspective, has been a very above-board, honorable guy - and very serious about choosing his "soulmate". From the start, I've rooted for a gal named Tessa, partly because I've liked her and related to her trepidation about the whole process and partly because she very much reminds me of a very classy friend of mine. It came down to two woman I think he legitmately believed he loved. Poor Bevin is going to need some serious counseling because he did end up sending her home and asking Tessa to marry him. I know, I know - will it last? Well, I'm rooting for this couple, because love doesn't follow a rule-book, every relationship and "story" is different - and well, I'm just rooting for them. Needless to say, it was very ROMANTIC.

Ironically, watching this show came on the very same day that I heard some news about another friend of mine. Very good news, incredible news - news we've been praying for for a couple of years. Let's just say it relates to the the title of the post - and hearing about it literally brought tears to my eyes (Michele's too, I might add), chills down my neck, and praises to God. We've been praying and believing that such a "story" would happen for this friend, but to see it actually unfold (or at least hear about it) - oh, it's just amazing. I'm SO HAPPY for her.

So, 'tis the season for love - and for me, more packing and tv finales too.

The Struggle of the Butterfly

This is the second time I've received this in an email - but the message has stuck with me (particularly with my kids) so I thought I'd pass it on to you.......

The Struggle of the Butterfly

A man found a cocoon of a butterfly. One day a small opening appeared and he sat and watched the butterfly as it struggled for several hours to force its body through the little hole. Then it seemed to stop making any
progress. It appeared it had gotten as far as it could. The man decided to
help the butterfly, so he took a pair of scissors and snipped off the
remaining bit of cocoon.

The butterfly then emerged easily, but it had a swollen body and small,
shriveled wings. The man continued to watch the butterfly because he
expected that at any moment, the wings would expand and be able to support the body, which would contract in time.

Neither happened! In fact, the butterfly spent its whole life crawling
around with a swollen body and shriveled wings. It was never able to fly.
What the man, in his kindness and haste, did not understand was that the
restricting cocoon and the struggle required to get through the tiny opening
were God's way of forcing fluid from the body of the butterfly into its
wings so that it would be ready for flight once it achieved freedom.

Sometimes struggles are exactly what we need in our life. If God allowed us
to go through life without obstacles, it would cripple us! We would not be
as strong as we could have been.

And . . . We would never fly!

Take a Deep Breath, "Mom"

That title is directed at me - yesterday was a bit of an "emotional mommy day" for me - I think one look at the pictures and you'll see why-

Yesterday was Mikayla's dance studio's "Spring Recital". So, we put her together to look eerily like a much-publicized child model that met a dire ending- (the costume was pre-chosen for us) and sent her on her way to the "green room", only to see her again when she appeared on stage. She did great. Fortunately, the 3 year old class went before her 4 year old class (age determined when she entered last fall), and compared to those sweet little things, Mikayla's class looked like pro's. Mikayla plastered a sweet smile on her face the whole time, avoided waving at us, and remembered most of her steps. Yeah. During the Act 1 Finale in which the younger kids came back to play an "act like an animal" game, Mikayla clearly had a blast. There's nothing better to see a child so happy- I was so delighted to have Mom and Dad, Stephie, Amy and Christina, and Erica there (Lisa sweetly forfeited her ticket so Dad could unexpectedly came). Quite fun.

Now, on to the part that caused the deep emotions. When I woke up yesterday morning, it was earlier than it was supposed to be as I had woke myself from a nightmare. In the bad dream, there was a big group of us at the coast and the kids were playing in the waves. I saw a large wave come up - yelled out, but all of the kids got swept under. When the wave receded, everyone was recovered except Mikayla. I'm telling you, even typing this has me teary-eyed - it was AWFUL! Throw in a larger than normal fear of ocean surf and drowning*, and yes it was one of the worst nightmares I've had in a long time. I did kind of let it go through the day though - UNTIL- they brought out the first Senior Tribute Dance. A gal that had been dancing with the studio for 12 years and did a BEAUTIFUL ballet piece. She danced to Josh Grobin's "You Raise Me Up" and behind her they had pictures projected of her growing up, including one of her being baptized in a river. Tears streaming down my face.....can you imagine the pride her parents must have? It was so moving. Then, after that performance I stupidly tried to tell my mom about my dream, completely lost it, and cried through the next senior performance. Good Grief! I had to work during intermission selling cookies and such and knew I better get my act together before I came out looking like I had been at a funeral. I'm not even PMS - I think the whole thing just hit me about how deeply I love my children, how proud I am of them, the bright future I see for their lives, and what an amazing ride it will be --- but, oh how hard.

This evening, we have the 2nd and final recital. We'll see if I do any better this time, but just in case, I'll pack plenty of Kleenex.

Here are a few pics of our little star:
This is a pic of Mikayla from the back. I'm not trying to brag or anything, but for a "stay at home mom" I think I did a fairly decent job on her hair - what do you think, Hollie?
Looking reflective.....
Like I said, the costumes weren't our choosing, but they turned out actually better than I thought. Put her in a group with 6 other little yellow angels and it's pretty adorable.

* Regarding that fear- growing up, when we'd play in the waves, Michele ALWAYS went out further than I did. It upset me a lot as a child and I remember yelling and begging her to come closer to the shore. So, what do you know, but perhaps 8 years or so ago, she and some friends went for a trip to the beach and got swept out with the current and barely lived to tell about it. Certainly, her biggest "Near Death Experience" story as the 3 of them worked and worked to keep their heads above water and try to swim back. Also, just this last week, I read about the dangers of sneaker waves in the paper - throw it all together and mix in my concern for losing Leona's John and Mikayla's recital- yeah, I can see why the dream happened.

Another Update on John

Just to let you know, things are looking SO MUCH BETTER for John. The doctors are thinking that, due to a lack of enough water, he had complications with his liver and kidneys. All of the medical details are still a bit fuzzy, but he is coherent, off all of the breathing and assistance tubes and seems to be well on the road to recovery. I'd call it a miracle.

Leona told us last night that she "felt all of our prayers" - so, thank you, thank you, thank you. What a blessing it is to have people to turn to and know that our petitions are being shared with the Lord. God Bless you all.........

"Leona's John" Update

Thank you for all of your prayers. Leona called tonight and left a message saying John is off the main oxygen tubes and is speaking a bit and more coherent. Hallelujiah! We will keep you posted as we find out more, but this is definitely good news.

Urgent Prayer Request

I just came home to find out that John's mom, Leona - her "John", the "love of her life" is now in critical condition at the hospital. He had had some problems that we knew about last weekend, but obviously things have gotten much worse and the doctors do not know what is going on. Please pray that he would have a remarkable full recovery, that they would all see a miracle occur with his health. And, Leona - we love you so much- I even had a dream of praying with you about him (a couple of nights ago). Thank you for everyone's prayers for both of them and his family.

A Couple of Questions LXIX

In light of yesterday's post and the "I can relate" comments - I think some of us are definitely feeling the effects of getting older- So,

1. What is something that you (or your body) can no longer do that you used to be able to do when you were younger?

2. On the positive, what is something you can do now that you weren't able to do when you were younger?

Why I'm Tired of Stuffing My Bra with Socks and Choosing Cosmetic Surgery

I couldn't resist.....

This really isn't much of a post, but I thought I could come up with such a fine title, it would be worth it......

On Thursday, I'm having some moles removed (for no other reason than inconvenience)- They've been with me all my life and have always caused me to be very careful when shaving my armpits. However, I think I've had a new skin tag come on to the scene, and because of working out more, it's come to my attention that it rubs right against my underwire on certain bras - PAINFUL! In an attempt to protect it, I put a band-aid on it, and now I'm suffering more from the adhesive burns than the actual skin tag. As a result, I used a sock in the side of my bra to protect the area- hence the title.

So, no, I've been endowed with plenty - no need to supplement- certainly a "gravity lift" would be great, but that's not the point......

Mother's Day 2007

Good Morning! I hope all you moms out there are "feeling the love" this morning, and at the very least, were blessed with a really great cup of coffee (or, in my case) Russian Tea.

Here's a pic of how I spent my morning shortly after waking up - we're in Mikayla's room, FYI - my room obviously doesn't look like that -
I was blessed with a Plug and Play, Disney Dance Dance Revolution game. It is what I asked for, but I'm a little disappointed it only comes in "Plug and Play" format vs. PS2, so I can't use it with the 2 dance mats we already have and do it side by side. I'll add in my comments if I think the $19 cost is worth it to purchase for other families. I also scored a jacket John found on clearance that fits PERFECT, and future luxury time at Bello Spa....... OH YEAHHHHHH!
However, this was one of my favorite presents, a card Brayden made in school. I love it so much because it shows he really does know what makes me tick - sometimes I feel like I'm not getting through.......but, he knows - particularly that I love him and think he is very special - what could be a better gift from your child..........

Mothers' Day Tribute Story

Michele recieved an email with this story and forwarded it to me - apparently it was contributed to the "Ellen Degeneres Show" for a contest they had - pretty adorable. HAPPY MOTHERS' DAY EVERYONE!

This is a submission to a contest from a viewer of The Ellen Show:

So, we had this great 10 year old cat named Jack who just recently died.
Jack was a great cat and the kids would carry him around and sit on him
and nothing ever bothered him. He used to hang out and nap all day long
on this mat in our bathroom.

Well, we have 3 kids and at the time of this story they were 4 years
old, 3 years old and 1 year old. The middle one is Eli. Eli really
loves chapstick. LOVES IT. He kept asking to use my chapstick and then
losing it. So finally one day I showed him where in the bathroom I keep
my chapstick and how he could use it whenever he wanted to but he needed
to put it right back in the drawer when he was done.

Last year on Mother's Day, we were having the typical rush around and
try to get ready for Church with everyone crying and carrying on. My
two boys are fighting over the toy in the cereal box. I am trying to
nurse my little one at the same time I am putting on my make-up.
Everything is a mess and everyone has long forgotten that this is a
wonderful day to honor me and the amazing job that is motherhood.

We finally have the older one and the baby loaded in the car and I am
looking for Eli. I have searched everywhere and I finally round the
corner to go into the bathroom. And there was Eli. He was applying my
chapstick very carefully to Jack's . . . rear end. Eli looked right
into my eyes and said "chapped." Now if you have a cat, you know that
he is right--their little butts do look pretty chapped. And, frankly,
Jack didn't seem to mind.

And the only question to really ask at that point was whether it was
the FIRST time Eli had done that to the cat's behind or the hundredth?

And THAT is my favorite Mother's Day moment ever because it reminds us
that no matter how hard we try to civilize these glorious little
creatures, there will always be that day when you realize they've been
using your chapstick on the cat's butt.

A Couple of Questions LXVIII

And the theme for this week- MOTHERS.... can't imagine why-

On a quick funny note, I was amidst the gals yesterday doing some yard work when the topic of me going to bed early the night before came up - I had been worked on by my mom and since it had been a long time since she'd done her massage therapy on me, it had loosened up some "locked in" places, and caused a doozy of a headache Tuesday night. As expected, I awoke on Wednesday feeling great, sometimes that just happens. However, one of the gals doesn't know me very well, or my mom so this is what she heard-

"Yeah, Nancy, I often get a headache so bad I have to go to bed after seeing my mom"

Shannon, (the newer gal) looked at me, looked at them and laughed, thinking my relationship with my mom must be horrendous to cause such side-effects. I quickly clarified, but it really amused me, as my relationship with my mom is quite the opposite.......

OK, on to questions:

1. What are your Mother's Day plans?

2. Do you recall a favorite Mother's Day - or gift - either given or received?

Have a great rest of the week everyone!

Life These Days.....

I figure it's time to post again but I really haven't had anything profound to write about, so I guess I'll just address the mundanes of my life- Here's a sampling of what consists of my life these days......

- nighttime protein smoothies with orange juice, strawberries, vanilla protein powder and sugar free vanilla syrup - not too bad, actually
- soccer games for Brayden with such GREAT kids - I can't tell you how awesome it is to see how they respond when someone gets injured - they all take a knee in reverence - really cool. I consider his class so sweet, supportive, and innocent, but I don't think they've lost one game yet. Somewhere over the last couple of years this team has gotten just awesome, and Brayden's doing his part too. Quite inspiring.
- daily dates with the cardio room at ESTC - rotating between the EFX, Elliptical Machine with bars, and the treadmill
- a house that I just can't seem to get a handle on, perhaps because, lately, I've spent very little time in it
- kids restless with summer fever, particularly with the temps as warm as they've been (Praise God)
- a Tuesday Bible Study that's been the best group I've been a part of in years..... yesterday discussing "submission" - now there's a heavy topic
- finally getting to see my mom again after her adventures in Portugal - and trying to convince her to speak about her experiences to Brayden's class (his teacher asked), but her being a little concerned about it (yes, Mom, the kids will love you, they'll think you're beautiful, funny, and full of adventure......)
- preparing mentally for Mother's Day with 5 kids. Thanks Schillings, I can't wait..... actually, it will be fun, but something tells me I'll be doing just a little work and effort on the day Moms are supposed to have the day off.....

So, there you go - interesting stuff, eh? Today, I'm going to help weed lawns for a family that are strangers to me, but friends of one of my friends - the dad just found out he has stage 4 brain cancer - that tends to put all of this mundane-ness right into perspective, I'd say.......which is why I thank God for it all-

Sahalie and Koosah Falls

We made it! Hiking is a passion of mine - has been for a very long time, but as of the last half-decade, it's been largely ignored. When Brayden still fit in a backpack, Michele and I took the two boys out and have quite a few pictures of fun adventrures to show for it. But, since then, it's been a difficult thing to do with small kids. They don't have the stamina to walk that far, and we don't have the stamina to carry them when they quit.

But, lately, I've noticed my kids stepping it up when it comes to exercise and I was guessing that they might finally be at the age to actually make it on a hike. My guess was right. We did a one and a half mile loop, with a little bit of change of elevation, and they did FANTASTIC - both of them! John and I kept expressing how proud we were of them.

A few quotes that made my day:

BRAYDEN & MIKAYLA: Upon seeing the Sahalie Falls, both of them were wide-eyed and said, WOAH!!!!
BRAYDEN: I love hiking, I think this is probably my favorite subject on weekends!
BRAYDEN: Daddy, hiking is my favorite sport.
MIKAYLA: Praying to God that He would help her get up the final steps....

On to some pictures:
The "fam" in front of Sahalie Falls
The Whites
Stephie and Mikayla started out as early hiking buddies
I know this picture doesn't do it justice, but one of the things I love the most about this hike is the aquamarine waters, just breathtaking-
John, Brayden, and Syd on the bridge that crosses the river
At the Carmen-Smith Reservoir we took a little pitstop and the dogs started wading in the creek. That led us to testing Syd in the reservoir with a stick, and what do you know, she "retrieved" - GOOD DOG!
Koosah Falls - The hike is a one and a half mile loop that starts with Sahalie Falls, heads upstream, crosses the McKenzie, goes downstream to Carmen-Smith Reservoir, then goes upstream again to Koosah Falls, followed quickly by Sahalie Falls again.

A Time for All Things

For five days (Monday through Friday), I:

- cardio exercised for at least 30 minutes a day
- did some sort of weight training each day
- spent time "hurting" on my ab lounge
- ate in a manner I'm unaccustomed to, virtually eliminating carb-snacking in the evening hours
- lost 4 pounds

On the sixth day, Saturday, I:

- did not exercise
- went to see "Spiderman 3" in the movie theater
- ate (by myself) a large bag of popcorn with "light butter"
- and, about a dozen Brach's Strawberry bon-bon candies
- and, a half a LARGE box of Good and Plenties
- and, a handful of tootsie rolls (all while watching the movie)
- gained a pound

Was it worth it? Oh, ABSOULTELY YES! There is a "time for all things" - and this is what I call finding balance in life!

Today, -hopefully- off to hike around Sahalie Falls with the family (including Sydney) - I'm hoping for some great pictures to post......

A Couple of Questions LXVII

Hope it's been a good week for everybody- WILD weather around here - I'm looking forward to the forecasted 70's set for this weekend.

I wasn't in the mood for anything deep, so here goes:

1. What are some endings you would like to see occur in the season finales of your favorite shows (reality or otherwise)?

2. There's lots of talk about the domestic chores we all really dislike, but how about something (besides raising kids) that goes with your job description of "domestic manager" that you like?

A Couple of Questions LXVII

Hope it's been a good week for everybody- WILD weather around here - I'm looking forward to the forecased 70's set for this weekend.

I wasn't in the mood for anything deep, so here goes:

1. What are some endings you would like to see occur in the season finales of your favorite shows (reality or otherwise)?

2. There's lots of talk about the domestic chores we all really dislike, but how about something (besides raising kids) that goes with your job description of "domestic manager" that you like?

Too Good to Pass Up

That was the phrase Stephietoo used when she emailed this "story" to me - I laughed out loud - hope you do too!


A blonde finds herself in serious trouble. Her business has gone bust and
she's in dire financial straits. She's so desperate that she decides to ask
God for help.

She begins to pray... "God, please help me. I've lost my business and if I
don't get some money, I'm going to lose my house as well. Please let me win the lottery."

Lottery night comes, and somebody else wins.

She again prays... "God, please let me win the lottery! I've lost my
business, my house and I'm going to lose my car as well."

Lottery night comes and she still has no luck.

Once again, she prays... "My God, why have you forsaken me? I've lost my
business, my house, and my car. My children are starving.

I don't often ask You for help, and I've always been a good servant to You.

PLEASE let me win the lottery just this one time so I can get my life back
in order."

Suddenly there is a blinding flash of light as the heavens open. The blonde
is overwhelmed by the Voice of God, Himself....


"Sweetheart, work with Me on this.... Buy a ticket."

Gettin' To Know Ya' from Literarygirl

This is from Literarygirl's website - so, I thought I'd have fun with it on my blog too....feel free to take it to your own blog or comment......


Are your parents married or divorced?
Married for 40 years.

Do you believe in heaven?
Yes, and I don't think there's any way we can possibly fathom how amazing it will be.

Have you ever come close to dying?
Yes, when I was 18 months I needed an emergency tracheotomy to keep me breathing.

What jewelry do you wear 24/7?
My wedding ring, and if I'm beyond sweats, some sort of matching necklace from usually Target or one that Jodi made.

Do you eat the stems of broccoli?
No, I would have to eat broccoli at all to do that.

Do you wear makeup?
Yes, every day.

Would you ever have plastic surgery?
Not unless it could be done without anasthesia, wouldn't take a risk on behalf of my family for that.

What do you wear to bed?
Totally depends, sometimes cozy flannel jammies, sometimes t-shirt and capri jammies.

Have you ever done anything illegal?
Yes, I allowed my best friend to drive without a driver's license and we got caught, I then denied knowing it to the police officer.

Can you roll your tongue?
Yes.

Do you have a boyfriend or girlfriend?
Husband.

Do you believe in abortions?
No.

What is your hair color?
Auburn reddish, with more and more white creeping in.

Future child’s name, boy and girl?
All done!

Do you smoke?
NO.

If you could go anywhere in the world where would it be?
Discovery Cove, FL with my family.

Do you sleep with stuffed animals?
No, they go to the floor when we get in bed.

If you won the lottery, what would you do first?
Pray a lot.

Gold or Silver?
It's a toss-up.

Hamburger or hot dog?
A really good cheeseburger.

If you could only eat one food for the rest of your life, what would it be?
I couldn't limit it to one - KFC bbq wings, my baked beans (Lisa's recipe), raspberry pretzel salad - Combine those and oh, I am so happy......

City, beach or country?
City home, mountain vacation home.

What was the last thing you touched?
Other than this computer, my new "ab lounge".

When’s the last time you cried?
Teary eyed listening to Dave Mertz lead worship at church.

What color are your pants?
Black work-out sweats

Ever been involved with the police?
Outside of being pulled over for speeding and above-mentioned infraction, no.

What’s your favorite shampoo/conditioner and soap?
I had to go check....Herbal Essences "Hello Hydration" - for the moment, I change often

Do you talk in your sleep?
Snore, yes, talk, no.

Ocean or pool?
Pool.

What’s your favorite song at the moment?
I go through favorite songs fast - but, there is a song you need to be on the look-out for from Steven Curtis Chapman - yet to be released, but titled something like, "Dance with Cinderella" about never missing an opportunity for a dad to dance with his daughter as she grows up.

Have you ever had a cavity?
Yes.

Window seat or aisle seats?
Aisle.

Ever met anyone famous?
Yes, if you count Mark Schultz.

Do you feel that you’ve had a truly successful life?
Absolutely yes.

Do you twirl your spaghetti or cut it?
Cut.

Are you self-conscious?
Sometimes, but so much less than I used to be.

Have you ever ridden in an ambulance?
Yes, but I wasn't the primary reason for the ambulance (transit from a car accident).

Last gift you received?
A drawing of a tiger from my son (today).

What occasion did you receive your gift?
"Because you are such a good mom"

Last thing you spent lots of money on?
The basketball hoop out front and the ab lounge.

Where do you live?
In the city, in the valley.

Last wedding attended?
One of my best childhood friend's.

Favorite restaurant?
Hula Grill in Maui.

What is your favorite kind of car?
I soooooo don't care about kinds of cars - whatever's red and semi-cute and practical.

What’s your least favourite chore(s)?
Daily re-cleaning up what was just cleaned (loved the stringing beads analogy from Jodi).

Favorite drink?
Russian Tea.

Life Goal

John and I listened to a lot of music this weekend, and upon doing so, listened "carefully" to a few songs we'd never really bothered to before. One of those songs was from Mark Schultz (surprise, surprise) - and titled, "Until I See You Again". We decided the song was written as if Jesus was speaking to us, and it really is very moving. My favorite part is the chorus - if I just lived like that on a regular basis...........

UNTIL I SEE YOU AGAIN
Lyrics:
Oh child, precious one
Let your life shine like the sun
But you say “How long ‘til I can come home
‘Til I can rest in your arms again”
And I say “Not long but don’t miss this life and I’ll be
Waiting ‘til then”

(Chorus)
Live with the wonder of a child
Pray with your arms thrown open wide
Love with a love that has no end
Until I see you again

Oh child, precious one
With each breath know you are loved
But you say “How long ‘til I can come home
‘Til I can rest in your arms again”
And I say “Not long but don’t miss this life and I’ll be
Waiting ‘til then”

(Chorus)

(Repeat Chorus)

(Repeat Chorus)

Mark Schultz / © 2006 Crazy Romaine Music (ASCAP) (Adm. by The Loving Company)

Near Miss

Before I begin with the meaning of the title - here are a few more pics of the best 36 hours John and I have had together since our honeymoon.......
One of my favorite features of the Overleaf Lodge where we stayed....
Preparing to hit the outlets at Lincoln City, posing on our patio, prior to eating at Georgie's Bayside Grill in Newport
This is the place where we had our lunch in Downtown Florence - an adorable little cafe, with fantastic home-cooked food - highly recommend it.

Once again, can't say enough about how great of time we had - it was just amazing to reconnect with John, spending time together to do things we both like - horseback riding, listening to music, shopping, even working out - laughing, deep-talks, and other stuff =)........

So, in reference to the title, we were leaving the outlet malls via the inside hallway when all of a sudden some of the service staff started running down the outside aisleway. We left wondering what was up, and as we saw an ambulance quickly approach followed by a police car, figured it was a heart attack or something. However, as we approached Newport, two more sheriff cruisers had their sirens going heading north - and that sparked a conversation between the two of us that perhaps it was a bit more than a health emergency. Sure enough, this morning on the Portland news channel, they aired a segment about an attempted robbery and shooting at the Springmaid store at the outlets. I guess a teenage boy was shot in the face (serious condition) and the police are still searching for the shooter - crazy!

Then, on the way home we witnessed a pass attempt by a vehicle that came SO CLOSE to causing a head-on. The newer version Volkswagon bug that was almost hit nearly rolled over in their attempts to swerve away from the idiot doing the passing.

So, all that to say, I'm happy to report that I'm now blogging from my home, safe and sound - Phew! Oh, and special thanks to Michele - our kids barely registered that we'd left, they all had so much fun together........

Spectacular!!!!

Myself on "Milky Way", John on "Nougat"
The view from the top of the dunes where we were riding
Playing in the surf

Oh, God is good! This weekend we are celebrating our 11th anniversary - and way back in January, for John's birthday, I gave him certificates to a horseback riding adventure on the beach, and a night's stay in Yachats. You never can figure what you are going to get for weather in Oregon at the end of April, but we were blessed - today is gorgeous, and John and I have never had a horseback ride as thrilling and fun as what we did today.

It turned out, it was just the two of us that showed up for the adventure ride - so they quickly assigned us to a phenomenal guide - sweet and friendly, and "flexible" that allowed us to canter frequently on the sand and gave us an elongated trail ride on the way home. At one point, John and I's horses were racing on the beach - it was bliss for both of us - the faster they went, the easier the gait and rhythm to ride - I can't even explain other than I'm so thankful John enjoys it as much as me. We couldn't stop saying how incredible the experience was..... too awesome.

Here We Go Again

Well, my daughter is only 5, but already she has some of you beat in the scar-story department. Yesterday she added one more story.

Once again, I was not around when this occurred - on a field trip with Brayden without a cell phone. Wouldn't you know it? She was with my friend Amy, playing on playground equipment, went up some steps, tripped, and hit hard at the side of her eye on the corner of the next step. Ironically, this is the SAME place she got stitches with Grandpa and Grandma when she fell into the corner of their coffee table. So, I called Dad last night and told him he no longer should feel responsibility for that scar....

This adds to the scar on her forehead from crawling up her furniture, and the scars on her arm from the curling iron - poor thing. And, yes, the 3rd round of stitches..... This time, we were able to just take her to her pediatrician and do it in office. John was there when I arrived, she was a champ. She's getting good at these things, I guess.

In the meantime, she's going to get one heck of a shiner in that eye, and I think we'll be beginning to take stock in Mederma......

P.S. - Heather, any news on McKenzie? I've been praying for him to come home - if anyone understands the love for dogs, I do....

Kudos to American Idol

There's a lot that has been said about American Idol - the whole Sanjaya thing, pictures on the internet - but I'm going to put my vote in and say, I LIKE THIS SHOW..... Here's a few reasons why-

1. Tonight - good grief, watching Josh Grobin sing with the "African Children's Choir" - "You Raise Me Up" in an effort to earn money for those less fortunate - pretty amazing. It pulls at my heartstrings even more as I visited one of the homes for the "African Children's Choir" while in Africa. I watched them practice, interacted with them (and ultimately one of their blonde and beautiful directors was the final straw to breaking off the relationship completely with Lance.....PTL) Of course, it can be said that there is so much that could be done for other charities, or on an ongoing basis, but I think for the sake of balancing a show in which people demand to be entertained with a positive fundraising effort - I've been really impressed with the job that they've done.

2. It's not just the beautiful perfect people who succeed in this show. If you look at the contestants right now, yes, they look good, but they aren't all size 2. They aren't all "white". They don't even all have hair! Even among the winners - quite a diversity.

3. The winners have been positive. I'm sure there are plenty of exceptions, but I look at Carrie Underwood and think, "America did good with her" - It's been fun to watch with the kids (we get the shows East coast time so are able to watch them early) - particularly last year, every time Taylor sang, we'd dance with them. Not too many shows you can say that to.

This year, I'm rooting for Melinda, it's hard not to want someone so seemingly genuine, absolutely sweet, and incredibly talented to be this year's American Idol......

A Couple of Questions LXVI

Thanks for the kind words regarding my last post. The sunshine and schedule that came on Monday definitely helped.....

1. What is something that you swore you'd never do as a parent before having kids, but find yourself now doing (or have done at one point)?

2. Any intriguing stories that come with physical scars you now have? (This is a for-fun question, so please pass if it brings up emotional scars as well......)

One Lazy Weekend

It's been an "out of it' weekend for me - so lazy, lethargic, apathetic. I barely even got off the couch all day yesterday, slept in 'til 9 today and then took another nap. I think part of it had to do with the really nasty weather on Saturday, but it was just one of those weekends where I kind of wanted to be left alone and looked to simple comforts to provide satisfaction or happiness, which of course were only short-term and didn't really work. (Naps, food, tv, the internet, books......)

I guess something could be said for taking a weekend off, but I've really got to get my act together tomorrow and get back into the swing of things. I am not even happy being around me right now with my lack of enthusiasm and patience...... Hopefully, Monday will bring a new day and a new week of positive perspective and habits.......

33 Miles

Every now and then I do a little music or product plug - this post is another one of those.

I was getting bored with the music I was using to work-out so I did a little research on the KLOV website to try and find some catchy songs I've heard lately on the radio. I love their search tool so that for people like me who forget the words or can't even firgure them out, you can still usually find the song title and artist. So was the case with the song, "What Could Be Better" by a group I've never even heard of, "33 Miles". I really liked the song and headed to i-tunes, and lo and behold, there it was with their entire album. I love i-tunes so that you no longer have to buy an entire album, but can pick and choose which songs you really like and are actually worth a dollar to repeatedly listen to. However, I found myself saying, "I like that one too, and that one as well" and ended up buying 4 of their songs to put in my 30 minute mix of music. Songs such as "Thank You" - encouraging you to start your day just like that, thanking God for whatever comes your way, and "Hold On", or "Come to Me" -
One of the websites selling their music describes them as a mix between Rascal Flats, Keith Urban and MercyMe - I don't know about all that, I just love the sound, lyrics, and smile on my face when I listen.

Interestingly, as John will be in charge of Mens' Round-Up in 2008, he's responsible for finding the guest musicians. He would love to have Chris Tomlin there, but as he is considered Christian Music's most popular artist right now, a weekend with a bunch of older men might not fit in his schedule. So, I IM'd John last Monday about this group and he loved them, so much so that I think he's going to ask them to be the musicians. Considering they released their first album 5 days ago, they might just not be big enough yet to say no.

So, my advice for the day, check their music out and be ready for a smile......

A Few Proud Mommy Moments

When my kids are together for an extended period of time, they tend to do VERY GOOD together. They must realize they are the only playmates for each other and kick into a special bonding mode. However, when it is only short time spans, like in the mornings (EVERY DAY) or afterschool, they really don't do well with each other. If I had a nickel for every time either one of them says, "PLEASE STOP" (which ultimately escalates into an arguement) I would have their college educations secured.

So, with that being said, I have to acknowledge a few moments this week that they both demonstrated qualities I was proud of - individually, mind you, but still, I have to acknowledge them.

MOMENT #1 - I was driving Brayden and his buddy, Jack to soccer and Jack indicated he wasn't feeling very good. The poor guys had tears in his eyes and after calling his mom we decided to turn around and head back home. On the way home I asked Jack if he his belly felt crampy or if he felt like throwing up. Throwing up was the answer - so I quickly grabbed the Target bag uprfront, asked Brayden to empty it, and had him hand it to Jack. Sure enough, 30 seconds later, the poor kid was filling the bag. Why this earns Brayden brownie points: he was so compassionate to his buddy. The smell and disgust was pretty overwhelming and he didn't complain or comment at all. Instead he encouraged Jack by recounting all of the times he's thrown up- at the toilet or on the carpet, eventually earning a smile from Jack. Good kid, way to be a good friend. I tried to really praise him, it's not that he went out of his way to be remarkable, it's just that he didn't act like he could have, and for that, I was proud.


MOMENT #2 - Mikayla attends an indoor soccer class and absolutely LOVES her coach, Ramey. However, Ramey has been absent for 3 weeks in a row and because I was concerned she might have been fired, I asked somebody there what was up. They said she was down in California dealing with a "family tragedy" and would be back the following week. I suggested that my daughter will have to give her a big hug and the gal said simply, "that would be good, she'll REALLY need it". HOW SAD! I still don't know what happened, but I have to imagine she might have lost a family member. It made my heart ache for her. So, Mikayla, on her own accord, stenciled and colored a beautiful picture for her and upon seeing her yesterday, gave it to her, and gave her the biggest, tightest, longest hug. No questions, no conversation, just a huge hug from a five year old. I gotta think that's pretty good therapy. It was a compassion that only she could deliver, and I was proud.

Of My Own Volition

For anyone who knows my testimony, the BIG turning point for me in understanding Christ's place in my life occurred when I found out that I no longer lived by law, but rather grace. I had grown up a bit misguided in my faith due to the teachings of my grandma believing that every act of "devotion" to God was being kept on some huge Star Chart in Heaven, and likewise, everything I did wrong was being recorded as well. I lived in constant fear that if I didn't read my Bible at night, actually enjoy the Bible Trivia game Grandma wanted to play with us (that I did horrible on without the help of Sunday schools growing up), or confess any known sins, were I to be hit by a bus, I would end up in Hell. As a result, when the "dawn of understanding" came the day after a very special retreat, it was an awakening for sure. The idea that my acts for God were coming from love and not duty was HUGE - and all of a sudden, I wanted to do all those things - read my Bible, learn about God, serve Him, sing to Him, pray to Him - it all changes when you recognize the right motivation.

That has been a recurring theme for me over the years. I find that if something is my idea, I am much more apt to give it all my heart and follow through no matter how long or hard the course. But, the minute that it is somebody else's idea for me (i.e. - being paid to do it vs. volunteering, trying to meet "higher than you'd rather go" expectations of others, or just plain old "do this" orders), my attitude can take a real nosedive.

I think God is working on this with me. Perhaps He's saying, "Even if it is coming out of someone else's mouth, it is still MY request for you, will you please consider doing it on my behalf...." - and I'm not really listening. Instead, lately, I've just been getting really ticked. Ask Lisa, there has been a LOT of grumbling on my behalf lately because I've really been feeling used by people to accomplish THEIR tasks without regard for whether or not I'm on board with it.

The latest of these examples occurred yesterday when I received a letter in the mail telling me I had 48 hours to round up 11 volunteers for Brayden's school carnival. It was supposedly my job because I am the "room parent". But, I NEVER VOLUNTEERED TO BE ROOM PARENT! Way back when, in October, I got a similar email TELLING me I was room parent and what I needed to have done for the Harvest Party. That didn't sit well either, but I grumbled my way through the task. Yesterday, I was livid. I have to give a bit of back-story and say that my relationship with Brayden's school isn't super. I have loved his teachers and really like what I'm seeing out of the 2nd grade curriculum, but I have very little respect for the principal or the way things have been run by the PTC. So, I suppose, I already had a chip on my shoulder going into this thing.

I sent an email back yesterday to the woman who "assigned" me as room parent. I questioned how that was determined and tried to firmly but politely indicate the principals I have above described. However, this morning, I woke up feeling guilty and hopefully softened things a bit with another short emal indicating that I felt like I had been too harsh, I appreciate much work needs to be done, and for the record, I appreciate all of the effort she has put in..... I think that must have been the Holy Spirit working.

As for those 11 volunteers, I spent over an hour last night calling every family in Brayden's class to see if they could help. I only filled half the slots and I guess that will just have to do. The carnival is the night of our anniversary and we'll be heading out of town for the weekend to the coast. I wonder if I'll get fired because I didn't get my job done right, one can only hope.....

A Couple of Questions LXV

First of all, a little over 24 hours before the tax burdened folks will be free! Lisa, congratulations for getting through this season, I'm glad it's been one of your easiest. Feel free to come hang with me while your hubby sleeps 18 hours straight! (He doesn't plan on coming home tonight, will be working through the night and coming home in the morning for just a quick shower before working again....)

So, on to some questions - domestically related....

1. Any new ideas that you've stumbled upon that have helped you in organization, housecleaning, cooking, or anything else that has to do with being a home-manager?

2. Any products that have sprung up that you especially like?

Life Just Ain't Fair

Cuz, if it was, my husband would have walked away the winner of the Body Boot Camp "Biggest Loser" Challenge. Because life isn't fair, a 122 pound, ex UO track star record holder, and current manager of LA Weight Loss "chick" won the challenge. PULEEZE!!!! How fair is that?! Especially, when everyone that took part, coaches included, were rooting for John..... But, 5 meesely points kept him from taking that first place title. Of course, I'm taking the loss harder than John, "Mr. Smiles" is totally ok coming in 2nd place (well almost totally okay). Oh well, there is a whole lot John did indeed "win" - here's just a few examples........

Since January 3, 2007 John's change......

- In body weight: 43 pounds (22 pounds of which was lost in the last 4 weeks during this Body Boot Camp)
- In body fat: 14% (Began at 31% and ended at 17.8%)
- In inches around his waist: 8 inches
- In resting heart rate: 20 points (From 83 down to 63)

Am I SOOOOO PROUD of this guy, or what!!!!! I felt like I was married to a celebrity at the dinner tonight, as enthusiastic as everyone was to tell me how encouraged they felt by John's participation in the camp. (The pressure was on to be the perfect wife....let me tell you.....)

So, I'll end this post with a couple of "unofficial" before and after pics. The first one was of John on Christmas Day this last year - the second one was of John tonight - right before I sent him to bed with 2 Advil PM's as the poor guy is just exhausted...... Given he's been doing 10 workouts a week for the last 28 days and eating primarily egg whites, spinach leaves, protein shakes, and oatmeal........ I think he deserves one heck of a great night's sleep tonite - I think the whole family can say in unison - HALLELUJIAH, we have our husband and daddy back - well, 43 pounds less of him anyway!

Lost Thoughts

No, nothing deep here, as you might have been misled by the title - just deeply impacted by yesterday's episdoe of "Lost". I have to say, I'm going to root for Juliette and believe the best of her simply because I love her as an actress, and after last night, think she deserves an Emmy. So, here's just a few of the questions I've had brewing in my mind today - feel free to ask more, or offer your theories....

1. Was Ben lying about Rachel (Juliette's sis) being hit with cancer again, or lying about them being able to cure her?
2. If they truly have as much information people out there gathering information on the passengers, how on Earth did they find out about Sawyer killing someone the night before he got on the plane - which leads to the next question-
3. Were the passengers all pre-arranged to somehow be on the flight, and were they determined by the OTHERS.....?
4. If women die giving birth (and presumably the babies die as well) on the island, how did Ben end up there when he said he's been there his whole life?
5. Is Jack in on the whole ruse with Juliette? Is Juliette really a triple agent?
6. Where did the OTHERS go?
7. What is their point in having Juliette with the survivors - what is their end game that's supposed to occur in a week?
8. Does Juliette know Goodwin was killed by Ana Lucia, or does she blame the whole group of them for his death?
9. Was Ethan really trying to help Claire?
10. What happened to Locke's dad?

Loved the reunion scene, particularly with Kate and Sawyer - they are meant for each other.....

I've Waited Three Years for These!

I love lilac trees. I love the smell, but I especially love the big bouquet they make when you bring them inside. At our old house the neighbors on both sides had lilac trees and this time of year I would carefully inspect the fenceline to see if any branches were fair ground on our side of the property - I decided then that when we had a house of our own, a lilac tree would definitely be on the docket for being planted.

So, that's what I did - but the darn thing didn't produce any flowers (I guess it was still a baby....) - but, this year, ah, this year, it produced. And, probably saved it's life. Because, if we ever get around to doing a remodel on this home (which we have plans to do someday) - that tree will have to go - with no pretty blossoms it would have gone in the rubbish truck, but now, I think it will find a safe place someplace else on our property.......And, in the meantime, I'm getting bouquets from my own special tree.....

A Couple of Questions LXIV

I discovered a website where they'll publish your blogs and send them to you in book-form. They are hoping to work with Blogger very soon and this excites me tremendously. I'm thrilled that I can continue to blog away with pictures, stories and memories and more or less use this as my scrapbook - having it eventually published (annually?) - to have as a tangible family "diary". (www.blogprinting.com). Jodi- I know Wordpress is something they already do in case you are interested. Anyway, just a personal blog FYI.....

1. Your choices for dessert on any given day are your favorite version of the following, which are you most likely to pick? Chocolate, fruit pie, ice cream, or cake?

2. Which would cause you the most anxiety doing in public? Giving a speech, dancing, singing, or leading a group? How about least anxiety?

Happy Easter!

Today I was thinking about how strange that greeting seems - It's such a profound day of celebration and it just seems trivial to say, "Happy Easter".... hmmm, deep thoughts from Steph-

With a very full and satisfied stomach, I can say it's been a very good day for us. Church was wonderful this morning, the kids were a little squirrely, but not too embarassing, great message on grace - thumbs up from me. As for the rest of the day, we'll let the pictures do the talking-

Here's the eggs that the kids dyed, it's been a while since I've done that-

Here's the family - right after returning from chuch-

Here's Mom, playing Lego Soccer with the kids

Here's Ellie, wearing Stephie's boots

Finally, an outdoor Easter egg hunt - Ready, get set, go!

364 Days Until We Need to Do This Again.....

One birthday party down, now on to hosting Easter..... how thankful am I that our Easter is not going to be a formal occassion, just the Schillings and Mom (Dad's finishing the big project down in San Diego)- and perhaps the Whites. They have all seen my house in it's not-so-best shape, so I'm choosing not to stress one little bit about it, but rather, rejoice that the big birthday party is over.

But, before the party came the family presents time, I wanted to post this picture of the card we found for Brayden. It's the first year I've ever gotten Brayden a card, but I couldn't resist when I saw it, way too perfect. Brayden's response was, "this is cool, (amidst laughter), I'm totally going to keep this..... The inside says, "HAVE YOU BEEN FUN TO LOVE OR WHAT?"

Here's a pic of Brayden with his Joey memorabilia, giving a fake, "I'm so shocked" look.....


So, on to the party - we held it at an indoor soccer facility that Brayden and Mikayla both have played at. They have a party program where they run the show on the field for 45 minutes with their coaches, I figured, by the time all the kids show up, run the 45 minutes, feed them, have Brayden open presents, it'd be a perfect hour and a half. Never underestimate how fast kids eat - I still had to play "p.e. teacher" and run them back on the field for some "Red-light Green-light" and Tag for 10 minutes. I was TIRED!!!!

In all the years I've done a party, we've never had so many people able to come, nor have we invited so many. Lucky us. I'm happy for Brayden though, I think the huge turn-out made him feel very loved. Brayden seemed to have a blast as did his buddies, so there you go, mission accomplished.
Here's a pic of the kids eating their "make your own sundaes" (Brayden's not a big fan of cake)

The hot and sweaty kids at the drinking fountain

Some of the kids out on the field

This is a picture of Allie - Brayden's "special friend" - isn't she adorable? She was the only non-relative girl there, but seemed to have a great time, her and Brayden have quite a bond, that's for sure.

Finally, a special bond has also begun between Mikayla and Brayden's good friend, Jack. We ADORE Jack, so we think their frequent flirting is just fine, it's a very mutual thing between them, I think they've both admitted to having "little crushes" on each other. No, I'm not trying to encourage this dating thing WAY before it's time, but for the sweet thing that it is right now, it just makes me smile........

Birthday #8

What follows are topics of conversation between Brayden and I yesterday:

- What 9/11 was
- What happened to the planes and passengers
- Why the pilots chose to kill themselves
- The names of some of the bad guys we're at war with
- Why we're allies with England when we fought with them during the Revolutionary War
- Why we fought the Revolutionary War
- What "allies" are
- Who our allies were during World War 2
- Who Adolph Hitler was
- Concentration camps, and how many were killed, who was killed, and why
- Why America joined World War 2 (Pearl Harbor)
- How we ended up ending the war (the bomb)
- How innocent people died
- The size of the biggest states of the US
- How close the tip of Alaska is to the tip of Russia
- What countries let you talk about Jesus
- How some countries oppress their women (and what we've tried to do to help)
- What kids are like in Kenya
- Why they liked my hair so much when I was there
- How much the average person makes in Kenya
- Why Brayden's birth and delivery hurt so much
- How Brayden was so big, always hungry, and had a frog belly
- Whether or not Chip and Dale are brothers (twins) or friends (I definitely say twins)
- That Brayden had an increased risk for Down Syndrome and therefore, why we couldn't wait to meet him
- How I once confused my reflection in a mirror when I was a kid for Michele being with me
- How many times I've celebrated at Farrell's Ice Cream Parlour
- The different ways he's celebrated his birthday and which one was his favorite............

How about that - I know I've forgotten a bunch, but yesterday was definitely a conversation-heavy day with my little man. And, I loved every minute of it. Because of John's boot camp and that his knee was hurting big time, the kids and I all slept in Mikayla's room (Brayden on a mat next to the bed). Mikayla fell asleep fast, but Brayden and I just kept chatting - and I found myself thinking of this future post and how fitting the timing of it all.

Eight years old is a big deal to me. There has always been a big mental jump between the 7's and 8's of any decade - and particularly thinking about my oldest getting to that age. In my mind it represents a scary age - he'll be the age where he'll rebel, not want to show love to his parents, want nothing to do with us, and want to put aside any cartoons, childhood beliefs, and special family events for all things grown up and cool. Clearly, I worry about such things. But, one thing I keep coming back to, over and over again - and I feel so strongly I'm going to caps - ALL CHILDREN, HUSBANDS, WIVES, PARENTS, MARRIAGES, FRIENDSHIPS, AND RELATIONSHIPS ARE UNIQUE AND DIFFERENT - AND NO SET OF GENERAL "RULES" WILL EVER COMPLETELY APPLY...... As it is with Brayden. Why I wasted my time worrying is just silly, because, even though he turned 8 today, he is still my most wonderful Brayden.* He hasn't rebelled, goes out of his way to be affectionate in public with us (it was obnoxious the way he wanted to make clear he was holding my hand while I volunteered yesterday in his reading group), desperately longs for "special family activities", LOVES cartoons - particularly the fun Disney ones of my youth, still believes in Santa, the tooth fairy, and the Easter bunny (though I'm sure we're on the edge....), and doesn't seem in a big hurry to grow up. However, I do think he likes to be considered cool..... (who doesn't?) - but, so far, not at the expense of anyone else...... Man, I love this kid.

I remember asking my mom one day what age she most enjoyed parenting us (we were probably 12). She said she didn't want to make it sound cheesy, but she loved each year more and more as we got older. I didn't get that at the time, and frankly, as a parent, I've thought about that a lot and wondered if it could really be true. But, right now, I'm starting to understand, more days like yesterday, and I think I'll totally be agreeing with mom.

* In light of all of this praise, let me make it perfectly clear that I know we'll be having rough times ahead and my son is far from perfect - I think the point is, let me not overly worry about it, but cherish each day we have......

Welcome to the World Tana!

Congratulations Randy, Colie, and Caleb on the blessed arrival of Tana! It sounds like the experience was much smoother than before...... Praise the Lord. Check her website out here www.nittygrittycolie.blogspot.com to see some pictures, she's absolutely beautiful! Enjoy this wonderous time!

Way to Go, Brayden!

Brayden recieved this award two weeks ago. I've got to say, this little piece of paper tops all of the trophies combined in his room as far as I'm concerned. This award was earned by one boy and one girl in Brayden's second grade class. Apparently, the teachers of second grade all get together and choose who is to earn a different "character award" out of each class each week. Character traits such as responsibility, citizenship, and fairness have been also coverered. They just began the program, it's supposed to continue through the rest of the year. I'm extremely pleased that the second grade teachers have chosen to prioritize such qualities to study, it's been a big beef of mine that Brayden's school has been way to focussed on having the highest academic scores and not on teaching and modeling strength of character.

So, my son was viewed as highly compassionate. I'm going to be honest, he gets that from his dad - it is not a gift I score high on in any sort of temperament or personality profile. But, Praise the Lord, he inherited that from Daddy - as he did so many other personality characteristics (he really is a mini-John). What a treasure to have tangible evidence as presented by his teachers that my son is kind and giving to those around him, and not one who judges or withholds support because people are different than him. I think I have a lot to learn from my son.

A Couple of Questions LXIII

I love my kids so much, but today is one of those days where I'm counting down the hours until school begins again. I'm glad I'm not doing Hollie's no-complaining challenge, I've been doing a lot of that today. I think I'm in a mood to be selfish, and God is trying to answer those "not-thinking" prayers I've prayed in the past about helping me with my selfishness. I'm getting practice today.

Okay, on to some questions......

1. What are some sure-fire presents that people could give you that would make you happy no matter when you received them? They could be gift-certificates or whatever......

2. What is something that is currently lost in your home that you are sure a gremlin must have stolen, because you can't honestly figure out where it might be?

"Meet the Robinsons"

Last night we went to see "Meet the Robinsons" at a new theater in our mall. The best part of the whole experience was handing over the 4 certificates I had received from purchasing food I'd buy anyway at Safeway, and thus saving $37.50 on all four of us going to the movie (it was an evening showing and the price was higher because it was a 3D theater). You gotta love being able to work the system like that.

As for the movie - it's not worth $37.50, but perhaps matinee prices. I was very impressed with the 3D effect. Certainly not the red and blue celophane glasses of our youth. It was of the same caliber as the showings in Disneyland. The movie had a great message, with great themes. And, any time our son leaves the theater begging to buy the DVD, we know it's a hit with him.

Enjoy your Sunday everyone, I really need to get my act together and get myself, the kids, and the house put together before church..... I'm still just feeling a bit zapped.

P.S. Happy April Fools Day - the lame efforts at teasing and tricking one another are in full force around here...