Friday, January 20, 2012


This was originally posted in 2006, but given most of you weren't reading my blog at that time, I thought I'd repost it.  SO PROUD OF MY PARENTS.....45 YEARS OF MARRIAGE TODAY!

"Coming together is a beginning; keeping together is progress; working together is success." - Henry Ford

"Life has taught us that love does not consist in gazing at each other but in looking outward in the same direction." -Antoine de Saint-Exupery

Paul and Sherry's friendship began in the hallways of Thurston High School.  They were good, casual friends- nothing more, nothing less.

Then, one August evening following their graduation, Paul was supposed to take Sherry's roommate out for a date.  However, Sherry's roommate was busy with someone else (oops!), so Sherry got to fill in.  They took a drive to Oakridge - and halfway through, Sherry threw up.  One heck of a first date.

Somehow, the sparks ignited anyway, and they proceeded to date until November when Paul felt the sudden urge to return to his former love.  Gena had called and lured Paul away from Sherry for an evening, ready to remind him of the future they were destined to share together.  Before the evening came to a close, Paul realized what a terrible mistake he had made.  He left Gena behind and drove all over town to find Sherry and beg her to take him back.   Fortunately, she's a forgiving person.
(This is a picture of Paul and Gena at their senior prom.  In a "twilight zone" of foreshadowing - Sherry is seen in the background looking on.  Paul and Sherry were only casual friends at this point in time.)

Paul, being the incredibly patient man he is, waited a whole month before asking her to marry him, and then, never to rush, they gave it another month before actually getting married (and, no, she was not pregnant!).  He was 19, she was 18 - and that was 39 years ago; January 20, 1967. 

One Vietnam war that kept them apart, two children that drew them together, three parents that have passed away, four combined careers,  five grandchildren that have kept them young - 45 years of joy, sorrow, triumph, and pain - and a love for each other deeper than any obstacle they have ever, and will ever, face.

We're so proud of you, Mom and Dad - CONGRATULATIONS & HAPPY ANNIVERSARY!


Tiffany said...

I know I use this word a lot...but this is AWESOME!!!

Congratulations to your Mom and Day...45 years. Hopefully one day Jon and I will be that fortunate.:D

Completely off the topic...I love the way people used to right in the lower corner of pictures, sign them or right a little note. My mom has several this way. I think it's neat!:)

Broas Family said...

Loved this post. It was like yesterday when I was hanging out at your house at the age of oh, 11? And I can still remember your parents smiling faces and sweet polite demeanors. What a wonderful example you have!!!

StephieAnne said...

Thanks, Ladies! =) And, I remember those days too, Jen. Speaking of reminiscing....Sunderman Road was evacuated this week with all of the flooding, bet you don't miss that!